A REMARKABLE TRANSFORMATION

Personal Testimony of Cherry Wee
I would like to share to you how the Lord has changed my life. Just the thought of it makes me feel blessed and humbled as I reflect about my past. I made a lot of mistakes in the past. It was not an easy life. I experienced a lot of bitterness, anger and pain along the way, but in spite of these things, I can testify that God was there to completely forgive me. And that is what he did. He has changed my life for the better. And not only my life; but my husband as well. It was a remarkable transformation. I give all the glory to Christ.
It all started when my husband and I got married in January 13, 1974. For ten long years, we started life together living with my in-laws in the Philippines. And I tell you; it was not easy. What made matters worse was that it was a huge family. We were living in a big two-story house with all my other relatives and cousins staying together. And you could imagine the clashes and the conflicts that would arise when there is even a slight misunderstanding. Many times, I would just simply go into my room, cry and pour out my heart in tears until I could cry no more.
But living in one house with a big family is not just my main problem. The source of my heartaches at that time was my workaholic husband. With due respect to my husband, whom God has already changed, before you could not believe that he was very rude, temperamental, irritable and very moody. I believe that the worse a person was in the past, the greater the grace and the power of God being manifested in that person’s life. And that is quite true to my husband.
My husband was a good provider. He managed well our family business. We were engaged in wholesale and retail. He handled a lot of people. But this brought about much stress and anxiety in his life. Consequently, he became irritable and temperamental. When something would go wrong, he would easily get upset and yell at me in front of everybody. I would cry again and pour out my heart in tears.
This kept on until we finally moved to Manila in 1984 where we started our own business there in the hardware and construction. I thought he would change with the new environment, but he didn’t. In fact, he was getting worse. There were times when we had our “Silent war”. He would not talk to me for days. Again, my pains and hurts were enhanced further. But during these times, I was learning to call upon God to help me. I had a silent prayer for God to restore and heal our relationship.
My prayer was answered in 1993 when we joined a seminar for couples. It was a great experience for both of us. We heard testimonies from different couples on how their relationships were restored. We were not alone in our struggle after all. There were others who were experiencing the same things. But I learned a lot personally. I must not react negatively to his outburst. I must not keep blaming him for our situation. I now realized that I could only change my husband by first making some changes in my own life. I learned humility. We were greatly challenged. We decided that from then on, in order for our marriage to work, both of us had to work hard for it. This we did until the Lord brought us here in the United States.
It was here in the United States that I realized the over-all purpose and plan that God has for us in starting a brand new life for the better. We were introduced to a church that shares the good news of salvation in Jesus Christ. It was through their ministry that my husband and I gave our hearts to Jesus as our Lord and Savior. I can clearly remember that day last August 19, 2001 when we were finally baptized with water and with the Holy Spirit.
From then on, I was never the same. My whole life changed. There was a great transformation in my character. Even my husband was transformed by the Lord as well. He became a loving and God fearing man. His temperament changed. At the same time, my faith in my heart for Christ was being nurtured slowly. We realized that with ourselves we can not do much to restore our relationship, but now that God is involved in our family, He could do even better and greater.
I remembered the Scriptures in Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you, ‘declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you a hope and a future.”
I now realized that God’s desire for me is for my ultimate good and to give us a great future here. Since then, God has healed the pain in my heart. He has given us a brand new life. Our bad times have been turned into joy. I now give thanks to God even for the trials that I face each day for He is transforming me still.
If he had done that to me, He could do the same for you. Give your heart to Jesus. Make Him the Lord of your life and your marriage. He will do great things in your life such as you have never experienced before. Amen.




